Thanks to everyone who has commented on my posts. It's so much fun to know that you all are reading my sometimes meaningless writing.
It's been a few days since I've posted and I've found that my blog roll does not update to see who has posted something new unless I post myself.
We've been busy with swim lessons - at the pool everyday. All of us have extreme tan lines. I've gone through three bottles of SPF 45 on everyone, but we're still getting a lot of sun. You all at sea level may not know, but the sun is more intense the closer your are to it :). It's been in the nineties for almost two weeks, which feels like triple digits.
When I was young, I used to go to the beach as much as possible and lay out with baby oil on my skin then douse myself with aloe at night. I recently had a phone call from my brother in Germany and he reminded me that I used to ditch school and have him ditch with me just so I could go to the beach and not get in trouble for it. Those days are long gone. I fight for the shade now. I would never have dreamed of using SPF 45 then. Hopefully, I won't pay for my baby oil days.
This post is a bit of a ramble. I've planned quite a few posts, but don't have time to put them together the way I'd like so, here's what I'm thinking...We watched an absolutely beautiful movie tonight called "Miss Potter". It's a lovely movie about the life of Beatrix Potter. I'd like to put a review up and suggest all who haven't seen it to Netflix it (or whatever you do) today.
I've also got a ton of fun pictures from our swimming days over the last two weeks and I can't wait to share them...Then, someone gave me this great idea to share some of the things that children say to each other. Example: A couple of weeks ago I had a very good friend over that I hadn't seen in years. Our children had never met and, as usual, I gave all the kids a lecture about being on the best behavior and being good examples. Ryan then inquires of my friend's youngest daughter, "May I know your name?" I think if I start a roll on the things children say to each other, Ryan will be on the list most often.
Look forward to the upcoming posts.
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Sunday, July 27, 2008
I Am Neurotic
You all have to check out this site. It made me feel so much better. There are certain things I do that I know are neurotic. It has kept me from ever having a house keeper long term. Eventually, I get tired of someone not doing something the exact way I like it.
I have lots of kids, right? So, I have lots of bottles and sippy cups. (Some of you may have heard this story before). I can't stand it when all the sippy cups aren't turn the same direction. I like canned goods showing the "right" side of the label. Plastic and glass dishes HAVE to be separated. And this is just stuff in the kitchen. Don't get me started on towels and clothes and the making of the bed.
Granted I've lightened up a little. I've had to. The kids are constantly coming right behind me and undoing everything I just did. If I didn't make some concessions I wouldn't be the cheerful, upbeat person you all know and love (Ha!).
Seriously, though, you have to read some of the things on this site, like the lady who folds her trash - http://iamneurotic.com/. - Enjoy!
I have lots of kids, right? So, I have lots of bottles and sippy cups. (Some of you may have heard this story before). I can't stand it when all the sippy cups aren't turn the same direction. I like canned goods showing the "right" side of the label. Plastic and glass dishes HAVE to be separated. And this is just stuff in the kitchen. Don't get me started on towels and clothes and the making of the bed.
Granted I've lightened up a little. I've had to. The kids are constantly coming right behind me and undoing everything I just did. If I didn't make some concessions I wouldn't be the cheerful, upbeat person you all know and love (Ha!).
Seriously, though, you have to read some of the things on this site, like the lady who folds her trash - http://iamneurotic.com/. - Enjoy!
Saturday, July 26, 2008
My Space
Everyone I know who has their own website or blogs has a My Space page. Since being on Blogger and viewing blogs on Typepad and WordPress, etc. I've found I like these types of web pages much better. I guess sites on FaceBook and My Space are more for social networking. My opinion may change after I've given blogging a full year, but actual written blogs, keeping a record and communicating with friends and family all at the same time is more appealing than just pictures and profiles.
Now, I know I've subjected myself to a tutorial from those of you who've been doing this a lot longer than I. I welcome it. The more knowledge I have; the better off I am.
Now, I know I've subjected myself to a tutorial from those of you who've been doing this a lot longer than I. I welcome it. The more knowledge I have; the better off I am.
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Baby Update
I had an ultrasound and doctor's appointment today. Everything looks good. Tristan is about 6 1/2 pounds now and, Praise God, his head is down. I'm about 1 cm dilated and will start all the testing at the beginning of next week. They've scheduled me out to the end of August.
Every Monday from this point on I will go to the doctor's office, get an ultrasound, then have monitors attached so they can count kicks vs. heart rate, then have a follow-up with the doctor. It's a bit taxing, but it makes everyone a more comfortable. Especially, since today's ultrasound showed the umbilical cord all around Tristan's face. It looked like he was blowing bubbles. This made me nervous, but the ultrasound tech and my doctor both reassured me that this is a normal occurrence, but they will watch it closely.
The doctor advised me to do kick counts every day. Once after breakfast and once after dinner. I'm to lay on my side and count at least 10 kicks in 20 minutes. This will give me an excuse to slack off a bit :).
There's another hitch. My official due date is August 29, but Dr. Weary talked about inducing a week early or sooner if need be. I thought the 16th would be a good day (since it's Pop's birthday), but he told me that's the day the hospital is moving. They've built a brand new hospital and it's quite a bit closer to where we live than the other - where all the other kids were born. On the 16th they told me that if I go into labor before 5am I need to go to the old location, but if I go into labor after 7am I need to go to the new location. They didn't tell me what happens if I go into labor at 6am on the 16th. I think that's funny - ha ha.
Also, this makes me kind of nervous because what if I go into labor right after they move in and they don't know where anything is? I'm trying not to think about it. Everything is in God's hands. I'm praying for a peaceful and memorable birth to welcome Tristan into the world.
Every Monday from this point on I will go to the doctor's office, get an ultrasound, then have monitors attached so they can count kicks vs. heart rate, then have a follow-up with the doctor. It's a bit taxing, but it makes everyone a more comfortable. Especially, since today's ultrasound showed the umbilical cord all around Tristan's face. It looked like he was blowing bubbles. This made me nervous, but the ultrasound tech and my doctor both reassured me that this is a normal occurrence, but they will watch it closely.
The doctor advised me to do kick counts every day. Once after breakfast and once after dinner. I'm to lay on my side and count at least 10 kicks in 20 minutes. This will give me an excuse to slack off a bit :).
There's another hitch. My official due date is August 29, but Dr. Weary talked about inducing a week early or sooner if need be. I thought the 16th would be a good day (since it's Pop's birthday), but he told me that's the day the hospital is moving. They've built a brand new hospital and it's quite a bit closer to where we live than the other - where all the other kids were born. On the 16th they told me that if I go into labor before 5am I need to go to the old location, but if I go into labor after 7am I need to go to the new location. They didn't tell me what happens if I go into labor at 6am on the 16th. I think that's funny - ha ha.
Also, this makes me kind of nervous because what if I go into labor right after they move in and they don't know where anything is? I'm trying not to think about it. Everything is in God's hands. I'm praying for a peaceful and memorable birth to welcome Tristan into the world.
Sunday, July 20, 2008
A quote from C.S. Lewis
I saw this quote today from C.S. Lewis. It matches the method of which we are creating our Terry University. I put it here for record.
“I think this wise; the greatest service we can do to education is to teach fewer subjects. No one has time to do more than a very few things well before he is twenty, and when we force a boy to be a mediocrity in a dozen subjects we destroy his standards, perhaps for life”
“I think this wise; the greatest service we can do to education is to teach fewer subjects. No one has time to do more than a very few things well before he is twenty, and when we force a boy to be a mediocrity in a dozen subjects we destroy his standards, perhaps for life”
Saturday, July 19, 2008
Review of Big Fish
"Big Fish", a film directed by Tim Burton, is one of the films we checked out of the library last week. I had not heard of this film except that Netflix kept trying to recommend it to me and I turned my nose at it several times. The explanation just didn't sound interesting to me.
William Bloom (Billy Crudup) tries to learn more about his dying father, Edward (Albert Finney), by piecing together the facts out of the various fantastic tales and legends of epic proportions he's been told over the years. Edward was a traveling salesman, and his journeys throughout the South are the seed of the tales. Directed by Tim Burton, the movie co-stars Ewan McGregor (as the young Edward), Helena Bonham-Carter and Steve Buscemi.
This is a movie about a true story-teller. I don't know if any of you have any story-tellers in your lives, but I don't know anyone at this point who likes to tell tall tales. I remember when I was very young and spent a lot of time with relatives in Mississippi it seemed like everyone was a story teller. This pastime is more entertaining to me than many things I can think of. "Big Fish" brought back a lot of memories and was so enjoyable to listen to all the stories and how Albert Finney told them. Each story was both funny and outrageous. It's a bit understandable how his son doesn't appreciate them at first, but when a story teller is gone those stories disappear unless someone decides to carry them on.
I highly recommend this movie. I believe it's rated PG-13. Possibly because of some scary parts.
William Bloom (Billy Crudup) tries to learn more about his dying father, Edward (Albert Finney), by piecing together the facts out of the various fantastic tales and legends of epic proportions he's been told over the years. Edward was a traveling salesman, and his journeys throughout the South are the seed of the tales. Directed by Tim Burton, the movie co-stars Ewan McGregor (as the young Edward), Helena Bonham-Carter and Steve Buscemi.
This is a movie about a true story-teller. I don't know if any of you have any story-tellers in your lives, but I don't know anyone at this point who likes to tell tall tales. I remember when I was very young and spent a lot of time with relatives in Mississippi it seemed like everyone was a story teller. This pastime is more entertaining to me than many things I can think of. "Big Fish" brought back a lot of memories and was so enjoyable to listen to all the stories and how Albert Finney told them. Each story was both funny and outrageous. It's a bit understandable how his son doesn't appreciate them at first, but when a story teller is gone those stories disappear unless someone decides to carry them on.
I highly recommend this movie. I believe it's rated PG-13. Possibly because of some scary parts.
Adding Some New Elements
I had the opportunity this weekend to attend an informal song writing seminar with Brenton Brown. Worship music is definately high on my list of favorite music and Brenton Brown has written some of my favorites. Everlasting God, Hallelujah (You're Love is Amazing), Hosanna (Praise is Rising), Lord Reign in Me and many, many others.
Recently, I thought I would put my pen down because it's been so difficult to sit at the piano and actually work on my songs. I get a lot of inspiration which I still record on my digital recorder or write in my song book, but as Matt Redman says "Songwriting is 10% inspiration and 90% perspiration." I've found that the perspiration part has been difficult. Every time I sit at the piano someone comes and sits on my lap and wants to play, too. I've asked Vance to build me a little Mommy Cottage on our property where I could play music and read and blog :) and basically, just be by myself for a little bit. He's got more important things to do right now. Like, get our addition built.
Recently, a couple from our church called me and asked if I would sing on their demo CD. I told them the timing wasn't quite right, but as we began to talk it turns out that they are open to collaberating with me on my songs and are willing to help me demo my songs, as well. I'm praying about it, but this could be a great relationship.
My point is, just when I'm about to give up, God has brought two things into my life to get me inspired again. Giving up is something I tend to do easily. Most of the time Vance is the one who gets me to keep on keepin' on.
There are two things that I would like to start doing in this blog - talk about music, which is a big deal in my life - and - talk about health and fitness, about which I have a bit of knowledge and I will start training again about 4 to 6 weeks after the baby is born. I may even do a before and after picture. Those are always fun.
Recently, I thought I would put my pen down because it's been so difficult to sit at the piano and actually work on my songs. I get a lot of inspiration which I still record on my digital recorder or write in my song book, but as Matt Redman says "Songwriting is 10% inspiration and 90% perspiration." I've found that the perspiration part has been difficult. Every time I sit at the piano someone comes and sits on my lap and wants to play, too. I've asked Vance to build me a little Mommy Cottage on our property where I could play music and read and blog :) and basically, just be by myself for a little bit. He's got more important things to do right now. Like, get our addition built.
Recently, a couple from our church called me and asked if I would sing on their demo CD. I told them the timing wasn't quite right, but as we began to talk it turns out that they are open to collaberating with me on my songs and are willing to help me demo my songs, as well. I'm praying about it, but this could be a great relationship.
My point is, just when I'm about to give up, God has brought two things into my life to get me inspired again. Giving up is something I tend to do easily. Most of the time Vance is the one who gets me to keep on keepin' on.
There are two things that I would like to start doing in this blog - talk about music, which is a big deal in my life - and - talk about health and fitness, about which I have a bit of knowledge and I will start training again about 4 to 6 weeks after the baby is born. I may even do a before and after picture. Those are always fun.
Having Fun with the New Washer & Baby News
The new washer has so many high tech buttons, bells and whistles that it has totally captured my attention. I think I sat there and watched it wash it's first load of laundry for about 20 minutes. I'm amazed at the technology. The kids think it's "Really cool!" as well. I guess we're easily entertained. As promised, it barely uses any water, that is, compared to the old washer.
The salesman called today and we'll have the dryer by Wednesday.
That reminds me, I'll have another doctor's appointment and ultrasound on Wednesday and then starts all the testing once a week for the next four weeks.
I thought I'd share this picture. I subscribed to this great website for this pregnancy. Every week they update me on what the baby looks like, how the baby is developing, etc. This is 34 weeks. I'll be praying that at Wednesday's ultrasound they'll find that little Tristan is head down.
The salesman called today and we'll have the dryer by Wednesday.
That reminds me, I'll have another doctor's appointment and ultrasound on Wednesday and then starts all the testing once a week for the next four weeks.
I thought I'd share this picture. I subscribed to this great website for this pregnancy. Every week they update me on what the baby looks like, how the baby is developing, etc. This is 34 weeks. I'll be praying that at Wednesday's ultrasound they'll find that little Tristan is head down.
Well, the new washer and dryer arrived about and hour ago. They're still working on install. Lots of things have come up. We have a gas dryer and hook-up, but they brought and electric dryer - humph. The dryer also required a power cord which didn't come with it. The salesman didn't say anything about that so we had no idea. The delivery guys don't want to be held responsible for using the power cord from our old dryer, blah, blah, blah.
Anyway, I've got a new washer :). I should be extremely happy. When we went to purchase the machines I opted for white to save $100. They have all sorts of colors now. Well, on Thursday the salesman called and said that the white ones were taking too long and would we be willing to have silver at no extra charge. I was totally excited and said, "yes". I was just thinking that very morning, "We're going to have these machines for 10 to 15 years, I could have gone with a cool color for just $100." What's $100 over 15 years? Well, my excitement has lessened. Perhaps because the color change is the reason the salesman forgot we need a gas dryer!
I know the story will end well. I'll keep you updated.
Anyway, I've got a new washer :). I should be extremely happy. When we went to purchase the machines I opted for white to save $100. They have all sorts of colors now. Well, on Thursday the salesman called and said that the white ones were taking too long and would we be willing to have silver at no extra charge. I was totally excited and said, "yes". I was just thinking that very morning, "We're going to have these machines for 10 to 15 years, I could have gone with a cool color for just $100." What's $100 over 15 years? Well, my excitement has lessened. Perhaps because the color change is the reason the salesman forgot we need a gas dryer!
I know the story will end well. I'll keep you updated.
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
10 Baby Things You Don't Need
I saw this today and thought I just had to share. I wish someone had given this advice to me when I had my first. I can't imagine the savings over time with as many kids as we've had.
10 Baby Things You Don't Need
by Michelle Kennedy Hogan
Save yourself the space and cash
When I became pregnant with my first child, I had beenbabysitting for a wealthy family for quite some time. They had every gadget you could possibly imagine for raising a child. They also had every glossy magazine available, detailing everyshiny new gadget I would "need" in order to have my baby. I was 20 years old and a little overwhelmed by the finery. How would I ever afford it all? I soon learned that yard sales were the best places to find all of the gadgets I would need. Between the sales and the baby shower, I was outfitted. I had every gadget a mother could possibly need to take care of her baby.
It wasn't until baby number two arrived a little over a year later that I realized that I needed very few of those gadgets, and I had a yard sale myself to rid myself of the clutter that was overtaking my apartment. Save yourself the space and cash. Here is a list of 10 things you absolutely do not need in order to have a baby. There are many others, but this should get your started.
1. Baby Lotion/Baby Cleanser - I've received a number of bottles of these items through the years and I must admit that they do smell pretty good. However, not only does your new baby not need to smell any better (they already smell really good), but also take a look at the list of what's in the bottle. No, it is not just baby goodness. Indeed, I can't pronounce 90 percent of what's in it. Buy a nice bar of natural soap from your local co-op if baby is really that dirty, but a little warm water will do just fine for baby's already very soft skin.
Savings: $10 (plus refills) -
I have to admit I use tons of bubble bath and lotion on my kids, but since we live in a dry climate they need it. However, I do not use these things until there about 6 months and since I have a closet full of Mary Kay - I usually save lots of money by going there instead of the store.
2. Diaper Genie - OK, well, you won't be using disposable diapers anyway, right? But if you did use disposables, this thing has got to be one of the most wasteful, ugly things on the planet. It produces what can only be described as a giant doody caterpillar when full and I have no idea what you do with it after that.
Savings: $30 (plus refills)
I agree wholeheartedly! Not only that, but they stink to high heaven, even though they claim not to.
3. Changing Table - I had one of these for my oldest, but I soon learned that I changed 99 percent of his diapers on either the floor or the couch. Instead, make yourself up a little basket with the appropriate changing needs (diaper covers, diapers, washcloths, etc.) and keep it next to the sofa. Especially in those first weeks, you spend a lot of time on the couch as most of your time is spent nursing, changing diapers, and trying to catch a nap! Forget the table. Someday you'll just stand there looking at it, trying to think of something else to turn it into and then giving up and passing it along to someone else who really doesn't need it either.
Savings: $100 (at least)
Again, totally true. I don't think I've used a changing table since my first and I have baskets in two strategic places in the house loaded with wipes, diapers, diaper cream, etc.
4. Disposable Diapers - Do you have to ask? I swear it's not that hard!
Savings $20-$30 a week ($1500 a year for at least two years)
I have to admit I've been lazy on this one. I did cloth diapers for my first two. I even made my own wipes (cleaner than the wash cloths in my opinion), but I've found that as the babies grow things get a bit more messy and disposables are so highly engineered these days and are more capable of not making a mess. There's still quite a large savings if you use cloth for the first three months or so.
5. Baby Wipes - Buy two dozen super soft wash cloths and either a small "Rubbermaid" style container or some resealable bags. Put six to ten well-rung out wet washcloths into the container. Close it. Voila! You have baby wipes. Just toss in the diaper pail when used. Bring a plastic grocery bag on trips with you for dirty cloth diapers and wipes.
Savings: $5 a week. ($260 a year)
Again, great idea, but I think changes will need to be made to this plan at about 6 months to a year.
6. Nursing Pillow - I swear that your favorite pillow from the couch works just as well. So does a rolled up towel or blanket in a pinch!
Savings: $20-$50
I've had two nursing pillows from shower gifts and I've hardly ever used either of them. With the twins it was nearly impossible to use a pillow. Just too much going on. Hopefully, this is also giving people some good baby shower gift ideas.
7. Nursing Bras - They're expensive and make you feel silly. The little clasps are a pain. Get sports bras or just plain jersey knit underwires from your favorite discount store.
Saving: $20-$50 each
I didn't learn this one until my fourth, sheesh! Talk about creating more hassle. Definately, don't bother.
8. A "Diaper" Bag - If you must have all the pockets and little goodies, go ahead. But if you have a tote bag in the closet (LL Bean boat totes work great! Of course, you'll want to find them at a yard sale.) from the library or anywhere else, then just use that. Want the changing pad? You can buy them separately or make one from one-inch foam cut to size from the fabric store and a quick pillow case cover if you hate to sew!
Save the $40-$80 for your first night out alone!
I love some "gadgety" things. Pockets, compartments, you name it - and they get cooler and cooler every year. But, even though I love it, I still have the same diaper bag from the very first child.
9. Hooded Towel - They're cute, but unnecessary. Need I say more? Your baby does not need animal ears on his towel to be cute. I swear, the kid will be cute enough. Just get a clean towel from the closet. He'll get dry either way.
Savings: $10-$30
Agreed. I've had so many hooded towels and tiny bathrobs handed down to me - I don't know what to do with them all.
10. A Vibrating Infant Seat - They're silly and loud! If you think your baby is dying to vibrate in his infant seat (and you just want to put him down for a while), run the washing machine (full, of course) and put the seat on top of it. Just make sure you don't leave! He could vibrate right off the top! Fold some laundry (if you're feeling ambitious) or just read abook (a book? what's a book?).
Savings: $35 or more
I have to disagree with this one. The two main things I just CAN'T live without are a bouncy seat (most come with vibration) and a swing. Without these items I could never get anything done in the first three months. And the whole dryer thing, who wants to take that chance?
In place of number 10 - I'd like to add a wipe warmer. What a complete waste of time and money. You have to buy one of those pads so that the wipes don't burn and they only seem to last about a week and only come on packs of 2. I thought this would be so great with number 4, but I used it maybe for two weeks and was done. Even in the winter time, my kids haven't suffered from cold wipes.
Savings: $25 or more (with the refills)
There you go. Ten things you absolutely don't need when youhave a baby. I promise.
Go ahead, add it all up. Babies aren't as expensive and some people say :).
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Michelle Kennedy Hogan is the mother of six and the editor of Organically Inclined, http://www.blogger.com/. Her newbook, "100 Ways to Save Money Right Now" is available indigital and print formats. She and her husband John homeschool their children, work from home and practice sustainable living on an organic farm in Vermont. I'm jealous!
10 Baby Things You Don't Need
by Michelle Kennedy Hogan
Save yourself the space and cash
When I became pregnant with my first child, I had beenbabysitting for a wealthy family for quite some time. They had every gadget you could possibly imagine for raising a child. They also had every glossy magazine available, detailing everyshiny new gadget I would "need" in order to have my baby. I was 20 years old and a little overwhelmed by the finery. How would I ever afford it all? I soon learned that yard sales were the best places to find all of the gadgets I would need. Between the sales and the baby shower, I was outfitted. I had every gadget a mother could possibly need to take care of her baby.
It wasn't until baby number two arrived a little over a year later that I realized that I needed very few of those gadgets, and I had a yard sale myself to rid myself of the clutter that was overtaking my apartment. Save yourself the space and cash. Here is a list of 10 things you absolutely do not need in order to have a baby. There are many others, but this should get your started.
1. Baby Lotion/Baby Cleanser - I've received a number of bottles of these items through the years and I must admit that they do smell pretty good. However, not only does your new baby not need to smell any better (they already smell really good), but also take a look at the list of what's in the bottle. No, it is not just baby goodness. Indeed, I can't pronounce 90 percent of what's in it. Buy a nice bar of natural soap from your local co-op if baby is really that dirty, but a little warm water will do just fine for baby's already very soft skin.
Savings: $10 (plus refills) -
I have to admit I use tons of bubble bath and lotion on my kids, but since we live in a dry climate they need it. However, I do not use these things until there about 6 months and since I have a closet full of Mary Kay - I usually save lots of money by going there instead of the store.
2. Diaper Genie - OK, well, you won't be using disposable diapers anyway, right? But if you did use disposables, this thing has got to be one of the most wasteful, ugly things on the planet. It produces what can only be described as a giant doody caterpillar when full and I have no idea what you do with it after that.
Savings: $30 (plus refills)
I agree wholeheartedly! Not only that, but they stink to high heaven, even though they claim not to.
3. Changing Table - I had one of these for my oldest, but I soon learned that I changed 99 percent of his diapers on either the floor or the couch. Instead, make yourself up a little basket with the appropriate changing needs (diaper covers, diapers, washcloths, etc.) and keep it next to the sofa. Especially in those first weeks, you spend a lot of time on the couch as most of your time is spent nursing, changing diapers, and trying to catch a nap! Forget the table. Someday you'll just stand there looking at it, trying to think of something else to turn it into and then giving up and passing it along to someone else who really doesn't need it either.
Savings: $100 (at least)
Again, totally true. I don't think I've used a changing table since my first and I have baskets in two strategic places in the house loaded with wipes, diapers, diaper cream, etc.
4. Disposable Diapers - Do you have to ask? I swear it's not that hard!
Savings $20-$30 a week ($1500 a year for at least two years)
I have to admit I've been lazy on this one. I did cloth diapers for my first two. I even made my own wipes (cleaner than the wash cloths in my opinion), but I've found that as the babies grow things get a bit more messy and disposables are so highly engineered these days and are more capable of not making a mess. There's still quite a large savings if you use cloth for the first three months or so.
5. Baby Wipes - Buy two dozen super soft wash cloths and either a small "Rubbermaid" style container or some resealable bags. Put six to ten well-rung out wet washcloths into the container. Close it. Voila! You have baby wipes. Just toss in the diaper pail when used. Bring a plastic grocery bag on trips with you for dirty cloth diapers and wipes.
Savings: $5 a week. ($260 a year)
Again, great idea, but I think changes will need to be made to this plan at about 6 months to a year.
6. Nursing Pillow - I swear that your favorite pillow from the couch works just as well. So does a rolled up towel or blanket in a pinch!
Savings: $20-$50
I've had two nursing pillows from shower gifts and I've hardly ever used either of them. With the twins it was nearly impossible to use a pillow. Just too much going on. Hopefully, this is also giving people some good baby shower gift ideas.
7. Nursing Bras - They're expensive and make you feel silly. The little clasps are a pain. Get sports bras or just plain jersey knit underwires from your favorite discount store.
Saving: $20-$50 each
I didn't learn this one until my fourth, sheesh! Talk about creating more hassle. Definately, don't bother.
8. A "Diaper" Bag - If you must have all the pockets and little goodies, go ahead. But if you have a tote bag in the closet (LL Bean boat totes work great! Of course, you'll want to find them at a yard sale.) from the library or anywhere else, then just use that. Want the changing pad? You can buy them separately or make one from one-inch foam cut to size from the fabric store and a quick pillow case cover if you hate to sew!
Save the $40-$80 for your first night out alone!
I love some "gadgety" things. Pockets, compartments, you name it - and they get cooler and cooler every year. But, even though I love it, I still have the same diaper bag from the very first child.
9. Hooded Towel - They're cute, but unnecessary. Need I say more? Your baby does not need animal ears on his towel to be cute. I swear, the kid will be cute enough. Just get a clean towel from the closet. He'll get dry either way.
Savings: $10-$30
Agreed. I've had so many hooded towels and tiny bathrobs handed down to me - I don't know what to do with them all.
10. A Vibrating Infant Seat - They're silly and loud! If you think your baby is dying to vibrate in his infant seat (and you just want to put him down for a while), run the washing machine (full, of course) and put the seat on top of it. Just make sure you don't leave! He could vibrate right off the top! Fold some laundry (if you're feeling ambitious) or just read abook (a book? what's a book?).
Savings: $35 or more
I have to disagree with this one. The two main things I just CAN'T live without are a bouncy seat (most come with vibration) and a swing. Without these items I could never get anything done in the first three months. And the whole dryer thing, who wants to take that chance?
In place of number 10 - I'd like to add a wipe warmer. What a complete waste of time and money. You have to buy one of those pads so that the wipes don't burn and they only seem to last about a week and only come on packs of 2. I thought this would be so great with number 4, but I used it maybe for two weeks and was done. Even in the winter time, my kids haven't suffered from cold wipes.
Savings: $25 or more (with the refills)
There you go. Ten things you absolutely don't need when youhave a baby. I promise.
Go ahead, add it all up. Babies aren't as expensive and some people say :).
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Michelle Kennedy Hogan is the mother of six and the editor of Organically Inclined, http://www.blogger.com/. Her newbook, "100 Ways to Save Money Right Now" is available indigital and print formats. She and her husband John homeschool their children, work from home and practice sustainable living on an organic farm in Vermont. I'm jealous!
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Another Day in the LIfe
Wow! We really had a rough weekend. I've been trying to implement our Habit of Obedience, but we took the weekend off. Every morning we read the passage from a one-year Bible then we go over our Family Mission Statement, we review the verse for the day then the boys do some copy work. Lately, this has been The Ten Commandments, The Fruit of the Spirit, 9 ways to pray for someone, etc.
I believe this sets a good tone for the day, but the weekends have a different feel around here and we tend to have a fly-by-the-seat-of-our-pants atmosphere. Not good. The kids were at their worst this weekend...talking back, horrible attitudes, fighting, hitting - you name it they did it. Vance and I tend to be yellers so, put it altogether and we were NOT a family focusing on oneness this weekend.
Yesterday was a little better and today even more so. I have to think that it's the devotions we have in the morning. I told the boys today that we will no longer take the weekends off.
I mentioned a day or so ago that I made a chore chart with a list of daily household duties and I assigned a name to each day that these duties need to be done. The boys have their regular things they know to do i.e. make their beds, pick up their clothes, etc. Then, Glen feeds gunner every morning and Ryan cleans and fills his water. Ryan also does the recycling once a week. But, this other list has made my life so much easier and it's minimal for them since we're all sharing and all we have to do is go to the chart each day and see who does what.
This morning we had breakfast (cinnamon rolls, yum), did our devotions, did a few household chores then the whole family was off to help Daddy get some of his errands done. Once we finished the first we headed to the library. Dad dropped us all off and went to do more errands.
I was able to get most of the books I was looking for plus some free movie rentals. I got three Dr. Seuss books for Ryan to read to the smaller children (and practice his reading at the same time). I got "The 21 Balloons" a reference from another home school mom, which Glen, Ryan and I will all read together and they will learn how to narrate. A book on Shakespeare and a biography of George Washington. We will officially start school the week of September 1, but we're adding things slowly during the summer.
After the library, we went to Chipotle for lunch. I know it's not a fancy restaurant, but you should see the looks on people's faces when we walk in and have the whole family sit down. I try to imagine families like the Jeub's (who have 14) - what kind of looks they must get. They may not go to restaurants any longer. Vance and I have always been a bit brave in this area. Anywhere we desire to go we haven't hesitated just taking everyone with us. Well, I should say, we do think it over a little now that we have 6. The kids were surprisingly well-behaved and as usual we rec'd several comments. Some of them were "Are they all yours?" type of comments and others were about how amazing it was they weren't tearing the whole place apart. We get wonderful comments from the Grandparent types. They always say what a beautiful family we have. I can't hear that enough.
After Chipotle it was on to Wal-mart. I wanted to pick up some cool three-ringed binders for Glen and Ryan to store work from each of our chosen subjects this year. Sadly, they love Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles and Chaotic. Saturday morning cartoons that I would never have allowed them to watch, but I usually get the comment from Vance "Rachel, you've forgotten what it's like to be a kid." I get this comment often from him. I guess we temper each other. Anyway, the only folders that were to be found were of Hanna Montana (ick). So, I picked up some notebook paper (two packages for $1) and some fruit and we were on our way home.
The babies (Rachie, Morgan & Kael) are all sleeping so it's time for me to turn on the swamp cooler and take a little snooze myself. The baby is quite the boxer, especially when I'm trying to sleep, but it's fun to feel the movement. I'm hoping he'll move enough to get his little butt turned around (he's still breach). It's ok, we still have 5 weeks or so.
I'll let Vance and the boys go to baseball practice by themselves tonight and will make meatloaf and mashed potatoes when I get up and hopefully have it ready by the time they get back. Tonight will be movie night, as well. Maybe I'll give a review or something like that in my next post. :)
Oh, I forgot - when Vance went and washed the car while we were at the library it happened to be our tenth wash and was free - the Wal-mart visit was free, too. I've been getting gift cards. Then, of course, the library movie rentals and books were free. I just had to put all this down - it was almost a completely free day (except for Chipotle and the gas we used) but, WOO HOO!!!
I believe this sets a good tone for the day, but the weekends have a different feel around here and we tend to have a fly-by-the-seat-of-our-pants atmosphere. Not good. The kids were at their worst this weekend...talking back, horrible attitudes, fighting, hitting - you name it they did it. Vance and I tend to be yellers so, put it altogether and we were NOT a family focusing on oneness this weekend.
Yesterday was a little better and today even more so. I have to think that it's the devotions we have in the morning. I told the boys today that we will no longer take the weekends off.
I mentioned a day or so ago that I made a chore chart with a list of daily household duties and I assigned a name to each day that these duties need to be done. The boys have their regular things they know to do i.e. make their beds, pick up their clothes, etc. Then, Glen feeds gunner every morning and Ryan cleans and fills his water. Ryan also does the recycling once a week. But, this other list has made my life so much easier and it's minimal for them since we're all sharing and all we have to do is go to the chart each day and see who does what.
This morning we had breakfast (cinnamon rolls, yum), did our devotions, did a few household chores then the whole family was off to help Daddy get some of his errands done. Once we finished the first we headed to the library. Dad dropped us all off and went to do more errands.
I was able to get most of the books I was looking for plus some free movie rentals. I got three Dr. Seuss books for Ryan to read to the smaller children (and practice his reading at the same time). I got "The 21 Balloons" a reference from another home school mom, which Glen, Ryan and I will all read together and they will learn how to narrate. A book on Shakespeare and a biography of George Washington. We will officially start school the week of September 1, but we're adding things slowly during the summer.
After the library, we went to Chipotle for lunch. I know it's not a fancy restaurant, but you should see the looks on people's faces when we walk in and have the whole family sit down. I try to imagine families like the Jeub's (who have 14) - what kind of looks they must get. They may not go to restaurants any longer. Vance and I have always been a bit brave in this area. Anywhere we desire to go we haven't hesitated just taking everyone with us. Well, I should say, we do think it over a little now that we have 6. The kids were surprisingly well-behaved and as usual we rec'd several comments. Some of them were "Are they all yours?" type of comments and others were about how amazing it was they weren't tearing the whole place apart. We get wonderful comments from the Grandparent types. They always say what a beautiful family we have. I can't hear that enough.
After Chipotle it was on to Wal-mart. I wanted to pick up some cool three-ringed binders for Glen and Ryan to store work from each of our chosen subjects this year. Sadly, they love Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles and Chaotic. Saturday morning cartoons that I would never have allowed them to watch, but I usually get the comment from Vance "Rachel, you've forgotten what it's like to be a kid." I get this comment often from him. I guess we temper each other. Anyway, the only folders that were to be found were of Hanna Montana (ick). So, I picked up some notebook paper (two packages for $1) and some fruit and we were on our way home.
The babies (Rachie, Morgan & Kael) are all sleeping so it's time for me to turn on the swamp cooler and take a little snooze myself. The baby is quite the boxer, especially when I'm trying to sleep, but it's fun to feel the movement. I'm hoping he'll move enough to get his little butt turned around (he's still breach). It's ok, we still have 5 weeks or so.
I'll let Vance and the boys go to baseball practice by themselves tonight and will make meatloaf and mashed potatoes when I get up and hopefully have it ready by the time they get back. Tonight will be movie night, as well. Maybe I'll give a review or something like that in my next post. :)
Oh, I forgot - when Vance went and washed the car while we were at the library it happened to be our tenth wash and was free - the Wal-mart visit was free, too. I've been getting gift cards. Then, of course, the library movie rentals and books were free. I just had to put all this down - it was almost a completely free day (except for Chipotle and the gas we used) but, WOO HOO!!!
Monday, July 14, 2008
One more thing...
I had to include these before and after shots. The before has the windows already started by blocking them off with drywall. Vance's nephew Allen built-in the entertainment center (Vance stained and lacquered, of course). Vance built the fireplace and chimney (exterior) with help from Greg Rustin. Lighting and electricity was installed by Vance's dad.
I had to show this off because it makes such a huge difference in our home. This was Vance's "I need something to do in the winter" project last year.
Absolute Best Painting, Inc.
Something happened recently that triggered this blog post.
Vance is a typical entrepreneur and with our growing family he's always on the look out for new opportunities. Absolute Best Painting, Inc. has been blessed by God and Vance has been blessed with the strength and the wisdom to run this company for over 11 years. He does every type of painting and staining you can think of. He recently is building a new facet of the business with concrete stain.
Vance found out that some close friends of ours were getting bids for a basement finish. They hadn't asked Vance for a bid because they didn't know that he did this. He's done several basement finishes and is quite good at it. This has happened before, where good friends had mentioned that they just had their house painted and never came to Vance because they didn't know that he did exteriors as well as interiors or vice-versa.
So, Vance thought it was a good idea to write something that reminded all our friends and family that he does just about everything construction wise. He's built decks and sheds, he can remodel cabinetry, and of course, every type of painting and staining. He's not a handyman, but if you're taking bids for any home improvement project make sure to - ASK VANCE! After all, if you're going to give your money to someone and it could be us...please consider our seven children :).
Remember to check our site to the right http://www.absolutebestpainting.blogspot.com/.
And...here are some pictures of a basement refinish. This same post will be on the ABP site, as well.
Chair rail, stairs, trim, paint, lighting (by Bill Watson, Vance's dad) even window replacement.
Vance built this Jack n' Jill and laid the tile.
Flooring, lighting, etc. The before pictures would shock you.
Vance is a typical entrepreneur and with our growing family he's always on the look out for new opportunities. Absolute Best Painting, Inc. has been blessed by God and Vance has been blessed with the strength and the wisdom to run this company for over 11 years. He does every type of painting and staining you can think of. He recently is building a new facet of the business with concrete stain.
Vance found out that some close friends of ours were getting bids for a basement finish. They hadn't asked Vance for a bid because they didn't know that he did this. He's done several basement finishes and is quite good at it. This has happened before, where good friends had mentioned that they just had their house painted and never came to Vance because they didn't know that he did exteriors as well as interiors or vice-versa.
So, Vance thought it was a good idea to write something that reminded all our friends and family that he does just about everything construction wise. He's built decks and sheds, he can remodel cabinetry, and of course, every type of painting and staining. He's not a handyman, but if you're taking bids for any home improvement project make sure to - ASK VANCE! After all, if you're going to give your money to someone and it could be us...please consider our seven children :).
Remember to check our site to the right http://www.absolutebestpainting.blogspot.com/.
And...here are some pictures of a basement refinish. This same post will be on the ABP site, as well.
Chair rail, stairs, trim, paint, lighting (by Bill Watson, Vance's dad) even window replacement.
Vance built this Jack n' Jill and laid the tile.
Flooring, lighting, etc. The before pictures would shock you.
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Anniversary
Here is a tribute to Vance's parents who are celebrating their 33rd anniversary today. Mom and Pops are such an example of grace and wisdom to Vance and I.
They are an integral part of the lives of everyone in our family and I wish them huge blessings this year!!!!
We love you very, very much!!
Friday, July 11, 2008
Birthday
Today is my birthday. Vance and the boys remembered. So did Mom and Pops and my parents, as well. It's so nice to be remembered. I find that I'm the worst at remembering birthdays outside of my kids and Vance. I need to remember how much I enjoy getting birthday wishes and return the favor.
Today was a good day. We got a little bit of everything done. I woke up this morning, cleaned the kitchen and made homemade strawberry syrup again so, I made pancakes, as well. There was a little bit of business that needed to be done, but we were all out the door around lunch time. We dropped off the little ones at Mom's and Pop's (thank you) and went to see a movie. The last movie we saw in the theatre was "The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe". So, this was a real treat. They had this awesome figure in the entry of The Incredible Hulk. Vance said he'd like one for our house.
We saw "Kung Fu Panda". Not exactly what I wanted to see, but it was in IMAX and we hit it at the right time. It was good with one hilariously funny part that made me laugh so hard I embarrassed myself. Good thing there were only about 15 people in the whole theatre. Vance always says I honk and snort when I think something is truly funny. That's ok, because I know he loves my honks.
Here's a picture of us in front of the movie theatre. I know, I'm huge. To tell you the truth I think Vance is getting sympathy pregnancy symptoms. He says he's really going to get in shape before hunting season. So, hopefully by this time next year we'll both look half the size :). We actually took another picture of me standing behind him, but Vance encouraged me that I'll actually enjoy looking back on these kinds of pictures. I agreed. Pregnancy pictures are precious.
I finally got a picture of our mystery van. This is a picture of all the kiddos (except Rachie, she's hiding) coming home from Grandma and Grandpa's today. All those panels on the ceiling light up. The kids love to ride in the van at night so we can turn on the disco lights.
After we got home Vance and I got to go out to dinner with some very dear friends. We went to my absolute favorite restaurant. Listen to this dinner...We started with warm bread and seasoned olive oil followed by an appetizer of calamari with the best sauce you've ever tasted. I wish I could remember the name of it. Then, a chilled Caesar salad and finally Pasta Weesie (shrimp and noodles in a butter cream sauce). I can still taste the garlic. Then, because it was my birthday, I got a free hot fudge ice cream (without the annoying singing).
Vance and I then went to an electronic store and we bought a washer and dryer. Quite a large purchase, but I have to tell you a quick story...We had three floods last week, right? Two were sewage floods. We found out that the reason for these floods was because our septic tank was full. It should have lasted another year and a half. Our leach field isn't working so all of our water is going into the septic tank. That will be another large purchase in the near future. So, I've been trying to conserve water. The other day I tried to do a load of laundry without letting the water go into the septic. I disconnected the hose and used some of Vance's empty five gallon paint buckets to collect the dirty water. Each time one filled up I would take it out to the front lawn and plants and used it to water them. I didn't let the water go all the way to the top, but let them fill about one to two inches from the top. I emptied 12 buckets. If they had been completely full that would have been 60 gallons so, I'm guessing one load of laundry took around 50 gallons of water. Absolutely unacceptable!!! Laundry for as many people in our family requires a huge amount of washing (approx. 3 - 5 loads per day). We do our best to wear clothes as many times as possible and we use towels several times, as well. That could easily add up to 250 gallons a day and nearly 1500 gallons per week!!!!! I couldn't imagine continuing to be so wasteful. And to think I had no idea we were using this much water before we had the septic problem.
The new washer we bought only uses 15 gallons maximum per load. I couldn't believe it. No more hauling buckets to save our septic tank :). I'll actually feel good about doing laundry. Too bad they don't do the same thing for dish washers, but I have an idea for that. This post is getting a little long again so, here are my ideas in a nutshell.
1. Buy plastic bins to wash dishes by hand and use the water on the plants.
2. When I do use the dishwasher - save energy by cracking the door of the washer on the dry cycle - the heat left in the washer will still dry the dishes, but not use 30 minutes of electricity. I got this idea tonight from the salesman who said his wife has done this for years. He said she could squeeze two dimes and make a $20.
3. Add a small dry dish towel to the clothes dryer and it takes less time to dry your clothes. This idea came from a grandma who raised nine children and is now helping to raise 6 of her grandchildren. Again, she's been doing this for years and says that it decreases the dry time significantly, thereby saving her clothes from wear and tear.
I may be going overboard, but our electricity bill was $180 last month and this month it was only $80. I may not work outside the home, but I consider these kinds of savings little paychecks made out to me :).
Anyway, I really had a great birthday. Thanks to everyone who made it possible.
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Discipline
I think I may have mentioned in one of my earlier entries that we have recently come up with a new form of discipline in order to create consistency when the children do something they know is wrong. I don't know, you tell me, is this one too much fun?!
Vance and I felt like we were threatening too much and we hate giving spankings so, for the first offense of the day they get "nose in the corner". Which is really five minutes to think and have no distractions. The pictures above are of Morgan voluntarily going to the corners. She literally sticks her nose in the corner. I just had to get these shots. Obviously, for her, this isn't quite a punishment, but something fun to do.
On or around the same subject, we've been working on a Terry Family Mission Statement. It's not quite finished and the items may or may not be in order, but I thought I'd share...
1. To honor and serve God with all our hearts, souls, minds and strength.
2. Parents are the teachers and rulers that will judge with Christian kindness. If admonishment is needed for rules broken, let it be with hope and positive correction.
3. As parents our job is to prepare our children first for eternity and second for life on their own.
4. As parents we are to let God direct the learning for each child.
5. Children are to have an open mind and open heart to learn what is being taught.
6. Children are to observe the 5th Commandment - To honor their father and mother.
7. Charity or love begins at home and is the key to household peace.
This is what we have so far. It's not finished or perfect, but we review it every day as we learn. I've been reading a book that has inspired a scripture to observe each day of the week so that we can create harmony and less bickering.
Monday - Proverbs 16:24 - Kind words are like honey - sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.
Tuesday - I Peter 3:8 - Love each other as brothers and sisters. Be tenderhearted and keep a humble attitude. Don't repay evil for evil. Don't retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with blessing.
Wednesday - I John 4:12 - If we love each other, God lives in us, and His love is perfected in us.
Thursday - Proverbs 3:27 - Do not withhold good from those who deserve it when it's in your power to help them.
Friday - II Timothy 2:24 - A servant of the Lord must not quarrel, but must be kind to everyone; able to teach and be patient with everyone.
Saturday - Romans 12:18 - Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.
Sunday is a blessing - Revelation 3:21 - Those who overcome will sit with Me on my throne.
We will also be memorizing the fruit of the Spirit and will do some projects with that. Each week we will be developing habits. This week it is the Habit of Obedience. Glen and Ryan and I wrote these items down for this habit:
1. First-time obedience. 2. With a good attitude. 3. When called, answer "Yes, Ma'am" or "Yes, sir" 4. After direction say "Yes, Ma'am (to let me know you understood). Finish a task without stopping. 6. When the task is finished report back to me.
Sounds a little military, but to get school and chores done by 1pm this is absolutely necessary. We also created a chore chart listing all the duties of the house then assigning them equally among everyone - we've even found assignments all the way down to Kael and Morgan - simple tasks, of course. We'll see how long we can keep this system going, especially after Tristan arrives.
Other habits we'll be working on in the weeks to come and hopefully have them down before school starts are: the Habit of Attention, the Habit of Manners, the Habit of Truthfulness...Habits of Thoroughness, Punctuality, Taking Turns, Doing our Best, Prayer and Gratitude.
Speaking of that...(gratitude)...I gave Glen and Ryan and assignment this morning to write five things they are thankful for and why. I offered no suggestion or help, but I wanted to share Glen's list with everyone and have it in the blog for record...
Glen's Five Things He's Thankful For and Why - 1. I am thankful for my family because they are always there for me when I need help. 2. I am thankful for all the land and the house that God has provided for us. 3. I am thankful for God's blessing because even though our family hasn't been doing so hot we have accomplished many things. 4. I am thankful for the money we have to buy food with. 5. I am thankful for Jesus dying on the cross for my sins.
The "not so hot" comment is referring to the troubles we've been experiencing lately: floods, backs, kidney stone, etc.
We're also working on a Terry Family Obedience and Oneness Statement - once that gets close to being finished I'd like to post that, as well. For now, this is probably too much for one post :).
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
Benefits
Another benefit to blogging is that it has made me be more of a picture taker. There are whole months missing in some of my older children's lives when it comes to capturing their growth and stages. It makes me feel awful because I have such a horrible memory and those times are gone forever.
I can't tell you how many times we've gone to a special event and I've left behind my camera. Now, that I'm addicted to blogging I don't think that will happen any more. I can't wait to get home and share how cute my kids are :).
Here's a picture that I think every kid has. I know I have one of myself asleep at the high chair. This was taken last night. Yesterday, I couldn't get the twins to take a nap. This is Kael a half hour before bedtime. Poor little guy.
Normally, Kael and Morgan are fighting so, I had to catch one of these rare moments when they actually decided to sit together to watch their favorite show, Baby Einstein.
Hey all, I also wanted to mention that I've been playing around with all the cool things you can do with your blog. Recently I subscribed to a feed (don't ask me what that means), but they said it would make it easier for just about anyone using any network to be able to view and comment on my blog. I hope it works. Let me know.
I can't tell you how many times we've gone to a special event and I've left behind my camera. Now, that I'm addicted to blogging I don't think that will happen any more. I can't wait to get home and share how cute my kids are :).
Here's a picture that I think every kid has. I know I have one of myself asleep at the high chair. This was taken last night. Yesterday, I couldn't get the twins to take a nap. This is Kael a half hour before bedtime. Poor little guy.
Normally, Kael and Morgan are fighting so, I had to catch one of these rare moments when they actually decided to sit together to watch their favorite show, Baby Einstein.Hey all, I also wanted to mention that I've been playing around with all the cool things you can do with your blog. Recently I subscribed to a feed (don't ask me what that means), but they said it would make it easier for just about anyone using any network to be able to view and comment on my blog. I hope it works. Let me know.
Monday, July 7, 2008
Whew!
We made it through the weekend! Through the floods, the party and me leading worship at our church this weekend. It felt like a lot, but the party was enjoyable and a lot more relaxing than last year. Vance's back went out on Saturday, so I guess he didn't quite make it - he'll have to deal with a chiropractor this week.
There's lots to do as far as clean up, but it feels good not to have any commitments for the rest of the summer.
After horror week last week our first priority today is to take our Bibles and walk our property and house and pray the blood of Jesus over everything. One of our pastors while leading us in prayer this weekend said he got a strong impression from the Lord that there was someone there who need to pray the name of Jesus over their property. I immediately thought - that's us!!!
Other things on the list this week is carpet cleaning and reorganizing. Now that everything is pulled out of the rooms I hope to only put half of it back and get rid of the other half.
After all that, I hope to get everyone to the pool a couple of times this week. Wow! I just can't tell you how good it feels not to have any large events in front of me - except for the delivery of Tristan in about six weeks.
There's lots to do as far as clean up, but it feels good not to have any commitments for the rest of the summer.
After horror week last week our first priority today is to take our Bibles and walk our property and house and pray the blood of Jesus over everything. One of our pastors while leading us in prayer this weekend said he got a strong impression from the Lord that there was someone there who need to pray the name of Jesus over their property. I immediately thought - that's us!!!
Other things on the list this week is carpet cleaning and reorganizing. Now that everything is pulled out of the rooms I hope to only put half of it back and get rid of the other half.
After all that, I hope to get everyone to the pool a couple of times this week. Wow! I just can't tell you how good it feels not to have any large events in front of me - except for the delivery of Tristan in about six weeks.
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Another Flood
Don't you sometimes think, "I wish blessings would come as abundantly as trials?" We have another flood and several more hours of sucking up water from carpet.
We've been praying for rain. We haven't really had any for over two weeks. Well, we really got poured on tonight. Vance and the children and I went shopping for some necessities. The boys needed shoes and socks, we needed a few things for the get-together tomorrow and we needed supplies to put the toilet and bathroom back together. We stopped for fast food in the middle of all this (not McDonald's - we're boycotting) and we had a good time just being out together.
When we got home we were in the middle of lightning, thunder and a little bigger than pea sized hail - with a van full of groceries and other stuff. We sat in the van for about 30 minutes then decided to brave it. In the 15 feet it takes to get from the van to the door we were all soaked. The boys went to their room and found a flood of biblical proportions. They have a glass door in their room that leads to the outside and they saw about two feet of water like a fish tank just waiting to come in. Most of it had already.
We moved furniture and toys and other stuff out of the water as quickly as possible. The vac was already out because of yesterday's flood so I immediately started sucking up water and Vance put on a slicker, grabbed a bucket and started bailing outside their door.
It's hard to find the bright side on this one. Everyone had to help and it was already way past bedtime. No happy faces could be found. At least, this water didn't have poop in it :).
Vance is still vacuuming water as we speak. I'll go relieve him as soon as the swelling in my feet goes down a bit (lol). We'll be up all night I'm sure.
We've been praying for rain. We haven't really had any for over two weeks. Well, we really got poured on tonight. Vance and the children and I went shopping for some necessities. The boys needed shoes and socks, we needed a few things for the get-together tomorrow and we needed supplies to put the toilet and bathroom back together. We stopped for fast food in the middle of all this (not McDonald's - we're boycotting) and we had a good time just being out together.
When we got home we were in the middle of lightning, thunder and a little bigger than pea sized hail - with a van full of groceries and other stuff. We sat in the van for about 30 minutes then decided to brave it. In the 15 feet it takes to get from the van to the door we were all soaked. The boys went to their room and found a flood of biblical proportions. They have a glass door in their room that leads to the outside and they saw about two feet of water like a fish tank just waiting to come in. Most of it had already.
We moved furniture and toys and other stuff out of the water as quickly as possible. The vac was already out because of yesterday's flood so I immediately started sucking up water and Vance put on a slicker, grabbed a bucket and started bailing outside their door.
It's hard to find the bright side on this one. Everyone had to help and it was already way past bedtime. No happy faces could be found. At least, this water didn't have poop in it :).
Vance is still vacuuming water as we speak. I'll go relieve him as soon as the swelling in my feet goes down a bit (lol). We'll be up all night I'm sure.
Septic Tank Problems and Fun
O the joys of a septic tank. The last two days have been hours of carpet and flooding clean up - and it's not just water if you know what I mean. We're having family over tomorrow for the Fourth, so hopefully things will be smelling a little bit better by then.
Have you ever had one of those weeks where you feel under a lot of pressure and you just think, "If I can just make it through the next four days I'll be good." Take a look at the slide show - it's great how kids can see the bright side of things. They're having so much playing and watching. They followed the plumber and the septic guy around asking a bunch of questions. Probably annoying them. But, the pictures are cute.
Have you ever had one of those weeks where you feel under a lot of pressure and you just think, "If I can just make it through the next four days I'll be good." Take a look at the slide show - it's great how kids can see the bright side of things. They're having so much playing and watching. They followed the plumber and the septic guy around asking a bunch of questions. Probably annoying them. But, the pictures are cute.
Drill Here, Drill Now, Pay Less
This made a lot of sense to me. It may take some time but, he's got over 1,250,000 signatures already from people who think it's a good plan. If Brazil can have energy independence from all outside sources, we can and should. Go to the website mentioned at the end of the video and sign the petition and contact your congressmen.
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Babyness
I’m so enjoying being pregnant. O, I may complain that my back hurts, my feet are swollen and I’m tired, etc., but I’m really starting to love my big belly and just sitting and watching Tristan move around and having fun is so wonderful. I’ve found myself just sitting rubbing my belly and marveling. I get to be pregnant again. I get to feel this little one grow and change almost daily. He moves when he hears certain sounds. Often times, the twins will climb into my lap and push on my belly and he’ll push back.
I find myself thinking, “I only have 6 to 8 weeks left.” It’s gone by so fast. Normally, at this point I start thinking about labor and delivery and many times I’ve been anxious. I think about how much pain and how long, will the baby be perfect when he comes out, will anything go wrong? But, not this time. I’m looking forward to it. I want to savor every moment, every movement, every contraction… I’m not even extremely upset about the kidney stone that seems to be pregnancy related.
I remember once, after having the twins, I came into church and was complaining to one of the nursery workers about how the twins seemed to sleep for two hours at a time and it always seemed like the opposite two hours. It’s like they played tag team. I was so tired and just being negative. She told me a story of one of her now grown children and how she almost lost her and when she was and infant it was like she couldn’t wait until she stirred or cried so she could just pick her up and comfort her, feed her and rock her back to sleep. She talked about how she longed for those days again and how she would stay up all night if that’s what her child needed. She wasn’t trying to make me feel guilty and I didn’t really. But, I did change my perspective. It wasn’t long before I started feeling the same way. I remember saying in my head to one of my kids, “You can wake up during the night as many times as you’d like, I’ll be right here.”
Those moments when your children are in your tummy or are just tiny infants pass by so quickly. I don’t want to miss a single one. In fact, now that Glen is 10 years old I’m starting to learn that there are precious moments with him, as well. All the kids and all their stages of learning and growth are all extremely precious.
I’m so excited about the decision we’ve made about everyone staying home. I get to be with my kids all the time. I get to love on them, nurture them, teach them and just hang out with them. And, as they grow I can see them wanting the same thing with me and their dad and the rest of their brothers and sisters. Just the other day Glen asked, “Hey mom, do you think I’ll get to change Tristan’s diapers?” He and Ryan both help me with the twins’ diapers all the time and an extra diaper changer is always welcome so I answered and enthusiastic “Yes!”
Tristan is going to have so many people who want to hold him and love on him. What a lucky boy! But, until he arrives I’m going to savor every moment and every part of the process until he arrives and then I’m going to try savor every moment as he grows.
I find myself thinking, “I only have 6 to 8 weeks left.” It’s gone by so fast. Normally, at this point I start thinking about labor and delivery and many times I’ve been anxious. I think about how much pain and how long, will the baby be perfect when he comes out, will anything go wrong? But, not this time. I’m looking forward to it. I want to savor every moment, every movement, every contraction… I’m not even extremely upset about the kidney stone that seems to be pregnancy related.
I remember once, after having the twins, I came into church and was complaining to one of the nursery workers about how the twins seemed to sleep for two hours at a time and it always seemed like the opposite two hours. It’s like they played tag team. I was so tired and just being negative. She told me a story of one of her now grown children and how she almost lost her and when she was and infant it was like she couldn’t wait until she stirred or cried so she could just pick her up and comfort her, feed her and rock her back to sleep. She talked about how she longed for those days again and how she would stay up all night if that’s what her child needed. She wasn’t trying to make me feel guilty and I didn’t really. But, I did change my perspective. It wasn’t long before I started feeling the same way. I remember saying in my head to one of my kids, “You can wake up during the night as many times as you’d like, I’ll be right here.”
Those moments when your children are in your tummy or are just tiny infants pass by so quickly. I don’t want to miss a single one. In fact, now that Glen is 10 years old I’m starting to learn that there are precious moments with him, as well. All the kids and all their stages of learning and growth are all extremely precious.
I’m so excited about the decision we’ve made about everyone staying home. I get to be with my kids all the time. I get to love on them, nurture them, teach them and just hang out with them. And, as they grow I can see them wanting the same thing with me and their dad and the rest of their brothers and sisters. Just the other day Glen asked, “Hey mom, do you think I’ll get to change Tristan’s diapers?” He and Ryan both help me with the twins’ diapers all the time and an extra diaper changer is always welcome so I answered and enthusiastic “Yes!”
Tristan is going to have so many people who want to hold him and love on him. What a lucky boy! But, until he arrives I’m going to savor every moment and every part of the process until he arrives and then I’m going to try savor every moment as he grows.
Snacking
I thought this article was great and helpful. I don't buy snack foods. Every so often I'll buy a bag of chips, but mostly we make our own. I do the Cheerios thing. But, mostly I tell my kids that breakfast is at 8am, snack is at 10:30, lunch is between 12:30 and 1pm and dinner is around 5pm (this is subject to change on activity days). Snacks are usually apples, bananas, carrots or celery. They may only have milk and juice at breakfast and dinner. Snack and lunch is water.
Every Sunday I plan each and every meal and snack for the whole week. If someone doesn't like what is being served the rule is you have to have at least one bite per year of age (9 years old; nine bites) if you can't do that you get a slice of bread and a cup of water. We recently implemented these rules and the kids have already adapted.
Snacks are specials at Grandma's house :).
Let me know what you think of the article below.
Are we Snacking Our Way Into Debt
by W. Lomano
Can the amount of daily food intake in the area of snacking be equated with debt?
Everywhere I go, I see Americans eating. They eat in their cars. They eat as they walk around the zoo. They eat in museums. They eat at the library. They eat as they walk through the grocery store. They eat in church -- and let their toddlers take snack bags to the church nursery (even when snacks are prohibited in the nursery).
It's almost as if Americans think they can't go even an hour without eating something! And it literally "shows".
As my son and I left his city parks program, I overheard a child, about 3 years old, say, "Mommy, I'm hungry! I want a cracker!" and his mother replied, "We have crackers in the car, honey."
We sat down in the pew at church last week. A family with two preschoolers sat down behind us. Before they were even fully seated, their 3-year-old daughter said, "Mommy, can I have a snack?" The mother promptly handed her ... a book.
Now, don't get me wrong. There's nothing wrong with a healthy snack once in a while: a handful of carrot sticks, an apple or banana, a few crackers. Heck, I don't even have a thing against having a cookie or two with a cup of milk after school! But Americans are eating all the time and they are teaching their kids to eat all the time.
While my friends allowed their children to continually eat in their strollers, I never did. At first, I thought I was a bad mommy, not giving my children snacks everywhere we went; after all, that's was everyone else seemed to be doing!* But I realized the continual snacking was a very bad habit in the making: America is one of the most obese countries in the world, if not the top one, and continual snacking just adds to the problem.
In fact, continual snacking -- giving the kids "fish" crackers, graham crackers, fruit chews, snack chip bags, those plastic "juice"-filled bottles, Cheerios, and general junk food -- is not only costly in terms of the money spent on such items, but also in terms of health. The more junk food one eats, the more weight one gains. The more obese a person is, the more they will eventually spend on health care. And with the rising cost of health care, you could actually equate today's snacking habit with future debt!
Lack of will power in the area of snacking can also reach over into other areas of spending. If one is prone to buying snack food because it's available and it looks good/sounds good, then one probably is prone to buying anything out of pure "want", rather than necessity or need for the product. So, those who are spending a lot for junk food also most likely spend a lot on other needless products, and can easily run themselves into debt.
Is there a solution to the snacking problem? Of course there is, and it's fairly obvious: stop snacking continually! For a start, quit buying snack foods (cookies, snack cakes, chips, crackers, fruit chews, those pre-packaged "lunch" and "snack" packages, etc.). If you don't have it around, it is easier to forget about. Don't take food with you when you go somewhere -- get rid of that stash of Cheerios in the diaper bag (or fish crackers, or whatever), and that stash of pre-packaged cookies in the glovebox. Don't go through the closest drive-through for a jumbo Coke. Take a bottle of water with you (re-use a plastic bottle over and over with your own tap water).
If you do feel the need to snack, stock your kitchen with fruits and veggies: buy carrots and celery and slice them into sticks immediately -- put them in a plastic container and they're easy to get to and there's no-fuss to prepare them when you feel the need to feed. And drink plenty of water -- its not only good for you, but it will fill you up and it's free!
In the long run, you'll be healthier without all the junk-food snacks; you won't gain unnecessary weight from the continual snacking and you'll save a lot of money in the long run in terms of that spent on unnecessary junk-food and future health care!
In a sense, less snacking can even make you money: When I sold my double stroller, which was used on nearly a daily basis for at least 3 years, I got more than 1/2 its original cost because it was so clean it looked nearly new. My friend's strollers always needed scrubbing and were washed until they were threadbare ... and still they looked, well, gross.
Every Sunday I plan each and every meal and snack for the whole week. If someone doesn't like what is being served the rule is you have to have at least one bite per year of age (9 years old; nine bites) if you can't do that you get a slice of bread and a cup of water. We recently implemented these rules and the kids have already adapted.
Snacks are specials at Grandma's house :).
Let me know what you think of the article below.
Are we Snacking Our Way Into Debt
by W. Lomano
Can the amount of daily food intake in the area of snacking be equated with debt?
Everywhere I go, I see Americans eating. They eat in their cars. They eat as they walk around the zoo. They eat in museums. They eat at the library. They eat as they walk through the grocery store. They eat in church -- and let their toddlers take snack bags to the church nursery (even when snacks are prohibited in the nursery).
It's almost as if Americans think they can't go even an hour without eating something! And it literally "shows".
As my son and I left his city parks program, I overheard a child, about 3 years old, say, "Mommy, I'm hungry! I want a cracker!" and his mother replied, "We have crackers in the car, honey."
We sat down in the pew at church last week. A family with two preschoolers sat down behind us. Before they were even fully seated, their 3-year-old daughter said, "Mommy, can I have a snack?" The mother promptly handed her ... a book.
Now, don't get me wrong. There's nothing wrong with a healthy snack once in a while: a handful of carrot sticks, an apple or banana, a few crackers. Heck, I don't even have a thing against having a cookie or two with a cup of milk after school! But Americans are eating all the time and they are teaching their kids to eat all the time.
While my friends allowed their children to continually eat in their strollers, I never did. At first, I thought I was a bad mommy, not giving my children snacks everywhere we went; after all, that's was everyone else seemed to be doing!* But I realized the continual snacking was a very bad habit in the making: America is one of the most obese countries in the world, if not the top one, and continual snacking just adds to the problem.
In fact, continual snacking -- giving the kids "fish" crackers, graham crackers, fruit chews, snack chip bags, those plastic "juice"-filled bottles, Cheerios, and general junk food -- is not only costly in terms of the money spent on such items, but also in terms of health. The more junk food one eats, the more weight one gains. The more obese a person is, the more they will eventually spend on health care. And with the rising cost of health care, you could actually equate today's snacking habit with future debt!
Lack of will power in the area of snacking can also reach over into other areas of spending. If one is prone to buying snack food because it's available and it looks good/sounds good, then one probably is prone to buying anything out of pure "want", rather than necessity or need for the product. So, those who are spending a lot for junk food also most likely spend a lot on other needless products, and can easily run themselves into debt.
Is there a solution to the snacking problem? Of course there is, and it's fairly obvious: stop snacking continually! For a start, quit buying snack foods (cookies, snack cakes, chips, crackers, fruit chews, those pre-packaged "lunch" and "snack" packages, etc.). If you don't have it around, it is easier to forget about. Don't take food with you when you go somewhere -- get rid of that stash of Cheerios in the diaper bag (or fish crackers, or whatever), and that stash of pre-packaged cookies in the glovebox. Don't go through the closest drive-through for a jumbo Coke. Take a bottle of water with you (re-use a plastic bottle over and over with your own tap water).
If you do feel the need to snack, stock your kitchen with fruits and veggies: buy carrots and celery and slice them into sticks immediately -- put them in a plastic container and they're easy to get to and there's no-fuss to prepare them when you feel the need to feed. And drink plenty of water -- its not only good for you, but it will fill you up and it's free!
In the long run, you'll be healthier without all the junk-food snacks; you won't gain unnecessary weight from the continual snacking and you'll save a lot of money in the long run in terms of that spent on unnecessary junk-food and future health care!
In a sense, less snacking can even make you money: When I sold my double stroller, which was used on nearly a daily basis for at least 3 years, I got more than 1/2 its original cost because it was so clean it looked nearly new. My friend's strollers always needed scrubbing and were washed until they were threadbare ... and still they looked, well, gross.
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Horse Camp
I had to show off some of the latest pictures. Here's Glen riding a horse, standing backwards. It amazed me how familiar both Glen and Ryan became with the horses. I remember the first time I was around horses and I always thought they would kick me or bite me. Glen and Ryan seemed to have no fear whatsoever. Watching them do all their tricks was enjoyable!
Here are a couple more pictures from that day. Will and Rachie love posing together. We really did have a good time. No one misbehaved or was in a bad mood. Praise God for good days like this.
Morgan and Kael liked the horses for a few seconds, but I think they were more intersted in the piles of horse poop everywhere :).
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